Monday, March 26, 2012

Trayvon Martin & Race in America

In the wake of the Trayvon Martin execution I felt it was only right to divulge into a subject that never seems to get easy to talk about. Race in America.

For those of you that don't know, Trayvon Martin was a 17 year old black high school student from Miami, Florida that was visiting his father in a gated and predominately white community in Sanford,  Florida when he was approached by George Zimmerman, a White/Latino neighborhood watch vigilante, who ultimately shot Trayvon point blank in the chest killing him. Even though there are other factors that led up to the shooting, the reason for this cold blooded murder is simple; Trayvon was black and was deemed "suspicious" and was profiled by Zimmerman as being up to no good. The family of Trayvon Martin and the nation is in a justifiable uproar because Zimmerman has not been arrested despite this clearly being a hate crime. Listen at the 2:21 mark as Zimmerman refers to Trayvon as a "F**king Coon".

I pray ever day that Trayvon Martin gets the justice he deserves but unfortunately this is not the first and it certainly won't be the last time a person is profiled and stereotyped because of race.

Whether Black, White, Hispanic, Chinese or whatever your ethnicity, racial tensions and misunderstandings in this country are just as American as apple pie....this country has came a long way from slavery, Jim Crow and the Civil Rights Movement to where BLATANT racism and segregation is not tolerated as much anymore,  but it's still alive and thriving in many well known cities throughout the country. For example, check out Huffington Post's 10 most segregated cities in America as of 2011.

ARE YOU THE LEAST BIT SURPRISED BY THIS???

Too many people still believe that race mixing is wrong and some even deem it biblically immoral to marry and/or reproduce outside of their race. I personally feel folks should be with whomever they want despite race, religion, background or sexual preference. Respect, trust, loyalty and most importantly LOVE is all that really needs to be evenly yoked, because without them it doesn't matter what flag is mutually being waved...ignorance will eventually rear its ugly head!

But lets not submerge too deep into this topic because we'll be here all day.

But until we learn to do better as a nation when it comes to race relations and equality we will continue to be disgusted and saddened by the events that took place in Florida on February 26.

If people took HALF as much energy as it takes to hate someone and redirect that negativity into respecting each other, then things like this would not happen!

We wouldn't be a country full of bigots and racists and separate ourselves from each other in the name of equality and religion. We wouldn't judge based on looks and allow how an individual is dressed to determine whether or not they are a good or bad person.

There's no telling how many more generations will be subject to this type of ugliness but unfortunately it looks like it's here to stay.
So we have to EXCEPT the fact that some parents are raising their children to fear what they don't understand.
We have to EXCEPT the fact that the media portrays certain groups and ethnicity's less than favorable. We have to EXCEPT the fact that there will always be cultural division.
Or do we?
What happened to all the DREAMERS?


Symposium on the State of Race in America on April 9, 2012 in Washington D.C.

Monday, March 19, 2012

Why Can't Women Get Along?

Throughout history there are a few things that everyone knows to be true. Such as baby Jesus is the child of God, Uncle Sam takes way too much out of our paychecks and women do not get along with each other. These are facts!

WHY can't women get along you ask?

NO clue! But I have heard numerous reasons as to why; such as jealousy, insecurity, intimidated by those she feel are more attractive than her, competition, low or even elevated self esteem and on and on..... This is why you hear so many females say "I get along better with men than I do women." or "Women are too much drama to deal with." Women can't ESPECIALLY get along in the workplace . I know this from experience! I personally witnessed this catty foolishness at my job which led to ended friendships and terminations. I swear gossip has the power to take down NATIONS!

I don't think anyone has a real and definite answer as to why women don't get along with each other. If they did I'm sure someone would've wrote a book about it and made millions.

There supposedly is an epidemic of bullying amongst kids these days but have you ever seen a clique of women at your job or school set their sights on another women? Unlike a pack of wolves who would rip their prey to shreds within seconds, women take their time to verbally and emotionally destroy each other. I'm not saying men don't have bitchy moments in the workplace but women are way more methodical and calculated. Like I said, I witnessed this on more than one occasion and apparently its more prevalent in the workplace according to an article in the New York Times titled Backlash: Women Bullying Women at Work. The statistics support the fact that 40% of all workplace bullies are women and that women bully other women 70% of the time! COME ON LADIES! REALLY? LOL! 
I guess this is just one of those things in life that will always be. Like we all know that after spring comes summer, so why not just accept the fact that women just CAN'T GET ALONG.

Monday, March 12, 2012

RELIGION AND GAY MARRIAGE....HELP!!!

Happy Monday Folks! Hope everyone had a fun and restful weekend but its time to get back into the swing of thangs though. As you know by now time went ahead an hour over the weekend so days are longer, nights are shorter but the weather is going to start getting pretty dope. SPRING BABY!

Speaking of the weekend, I had an interesting conversation with a friend regarding gay marriage and why most states are reluctant to pass legislation that would recognize saddme sex unions. The first thing that came up was religion and the bible. Turned into a real debate of course! While I do know the Bible does address homosexuality, it doesn't explicitly mention gay marriage/same-sex marriage. However, the Bible condemns homosexuality as an immoral and unnatural sin and uses all kinds of other colorful descriptions against homosexuals such as, abomination, detestable sin, shameful, unnatural, lustful, indecent, unrighteous and will not inherit the kingdom of God. Now I never considered myself overly religious and I don't claim any organization, denomination and I never allowed myself to get brainwashed to sip just any kool aid. But what I do respect is the power and word of God. But I also have numerous gay friends that I love and respect and I believe for some of them being gay wasn't a CHOICE they made its just who they are. And if we all are children of God and created in His own image then why create those that are clearly religiously frowned upon?? Having a hard time with this one...HELP ME OUT HERE!

JUST DO IT ALREADY

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Friday, March 9, 2012

Follow up to Battle of the Sexes

First and foremost, HAPPY FRIDAY FOLKS!

Another week is in the rear view mirror...the weekend is upon us and some of you even got PAID! Pay some bills and then treat yourself to something that makes it all worthwhile....whether its a DRINK or a MINK...do YOU!
Now I've been reading the posts from the 'Battle of the Sexes' topic and I understand and agree with most of what was said, but there's one thing I just can't shake......
I had NO IDEA that "open relationships" were so common! Is that a solution to monogamy in some parallel kind of way? Are there actual long term, loving relationships that can survive having the freedom to engage and interact sexually outside of their relationships? Shouldn't unions of the heart, mind, body and soul be held to a higher standard? If not then whats the point of it all....
HUH???

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Love.

Thursday, March 8, 2012

INSPIRATION!


JUST SOMETHING I PENNED WHEN I WAS ASKED "WHAT'S YOUR INSPIRATION?"

INSPIRATION by J.Peay

Inspiration
 is the first thing you see when you rise-
Inspiration
 is a scent from the oddest aroma to most familiar-
Inspiration
 is falling in love with your newborn the second your eyes meet-
Inspiration
 is that rousing rush of electricity you feel when challenged to inspire-
Inspiration
 forms from the cusp of your soul to the brink of humanity-
From the most minuscule detail to the most obvious eyesore-
Inspiration
 is taking two steps back just to move one step forward-
Inspiration
 is incomplete yet full of motivation-
Inspiration
 is God granting you the serenity to accept the things you cannot change-
Inspiration
 is challenging-
My most poignant pieces percolated purposely and was pulled from promiscuous and predicated passages aroused primarily from a lil word play-
Inspiration 
was the culprit in that previous rant :-)
Inspiration
 lies between let there be light and the promise of a new day-
It lies between Cocktails for Two and Reasonable Doubt
It lies between a Dream and Inauguration 2008
Inspiration
 is I love you and I want to do better-
Inspiration
 is unpredictable, perpetual times infinity-
A world without end-
Inspiration
 is freedom, inspire.



Battle of the Sexes

I'm a little puzzled! We all know that relationships come and go. Marriages dissolve and even some friendships don't last forever. Everyone expects their friend, lover, spouse or whatever to be loyal. In a perfect world this would be fine, but reality is anything but perfect. Apparently, especially for MEN! A recent online poll showed that approximately 40% of men seek sexual satisfaction outside of their relationships compared to only 14% of women. WOW! So why is it that women want their boyfriends, husbands, significant others, etc., to be faithful? Is a lifetime of monogamy too heavy a burden on anyone, including WOMEN?
HELP ME OUT HERE FOLKS!


http://www.semenspy.com/ <--- yall be careful out there!LOL!

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